Jolles argues that credibility is as much about attitude as it is about aptitude. So-called "soft skills" like pitch, pace, and tone of voice, are actually some of the most crucial factors in determining how people perceive us. As he puts it, "it's not the words, it's the tune" that really makes us memorable and credible.
This book is about finding the necessary magic to help others believe you. It requires an unshakable belief in yourself, so Jolles starts there. With that as a solid foundation, you can move on to the specific tactics and practices that will make you credible and convincing. But these can be tough to practice in the face of the inevitable setbacks we all face, so he also offers advice on maintaining courage and confidence when doubt naturally creeps in. And he concludes with a discussion of sustaining your newfound credibility for the long haul.
There isn't a soul on earth who hasn't questioned themselves at some point. And most of us are just one or two brutal rejections away from questioning all that we are.
Why People Don't Believe You helps readers cultivate a robust mental framework and a set of what Jolles calls "performance skills" to tackle these doubts. You are good enough -and after reading this stirring book, you'll be ready to make the world believe that as well.
這本書是關於找到必要的魔法來幫助別人相信你。它需要在自己不可動搖的信念,所以Jolles從那裡開始。有了它作為一個堅實的基礎,你可以繼續採取具體的策略和做法,這將使你相信和有說服力。但面對我們所面臨的不可避免的挫折,這些都很難實踐,所以當懷疑自然也會悄悄進入,他也提供了保持勇氣和信心的建議。他最後還討論了長期保持新發現的總結。
世界上沒有一個靈魂在某個時刻沒有質疑過自己。我們大多數人只是被一兩次殘酷的質疑給拒絕,而不是質疑我們所有人。
(譯者/徐琍沂)